The posts I wrote on Facebook last year at this time are really freaking me out. I can't believe how scared I was of him. He would make passive-aggressive, not to mention passive-aggressive and threatening,
Post from 3/9/2015 Feeling the fear
Blows my mind how people justify being cold, heartless. How can you blame another when you are verbal abusive. Of course, in these situations it's dangerous to stand up for yourself. Suffer and fume in silence. Practice deep breathing and meditation. Complain to FB. ;-)
The posts I wrote on Facebook last year at this time are really freaking me out. I can't believe how scared I was of him. He would make manipulative comments, not to mention passive-aggressive and threatening, to let me know he held the power in the relationship. I'll never understand the mental processes of someone who can be cruel, conniving, and mendacious. Or what type of man it takes to physically threaten a woman. I remember one instance very specifically, when he stated: "You know, I could be an asshole and you could come home to all your stuff outside and the locks changed. But I'm not an asshole." Really? You are NOT an "asshole" to threaten someone like that?? No matter how veiled the threat, it was a a threat.
Poor skills overall
Mar 9, 2015 "Just venting, but why do I have to pay for it when somebody has a bad day at work. I spent all day trying to get jobs and cleaning the house and I'm cooking dinner, and then the only comment that's made to me when walks in the door is not "hey how's your day been" but noticing that the bed is not made--the sheets are in the wash. When I calmly and nicely mention that maybe that's to consider how that comes across to someone when you greet them at the end of the day, the bad day at work excuse card gets pulled. Yeah no relationship skills whatsoever"
There is fiction. There is life. What is the difference?
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